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One Reason and One Reason Only

In Uncategorized on August 10, 2012 at 5:30 am

As far as I can tell, homosexuality is a victimless sin. Let’s break some of ’em down, though, shall we?

Theft: someone else loses something—his stuff.

Murder: someone else loses something—his life.

Adultery: someone else loses someone—his spouse.

Now onto homosexuality. Who loses what? No one and nothing. So how can it be wrong? Well, because God—the Creator of the Universe—said it’s wrong. And if He said it, then it’s true. Know this, though: He loves us immensely and unconditionally. Every rule He sets forth for us to follow—the biggest one being to love one another—is for our own good.  It’s never, ever to punish us.

As a Christian who leans toward the right politically, I take issue with politicians—specifically Republicans—and other Christians who condemn homosexuality based on it being “unnatural.” You want to tell me that some of the things heterosexuals do with and to each other during sex—things that God completely approves of—seem natural? Not so much. Most of us certainly did not think so as kids, that’s for sure. Furthermore, if God had said we should have sex with the lights on, then guess what, folks? We’d all be obliged to keep the lights on.

How dare anyone tell a homosexual, a heterosexual, an asexual—any human being, i.e., one of God’s creations, that he or she is going to burn in hell based on their lifestyle choices! The only thing that sends a person to hell is not accepting Jesus Christ as one’s Lord and Savior. John 3:16, anyone? And no one knows who, at the very last moment, right before a person takes his or her last breath, when the Light is shining so brightly, will surrender to the Lord Almighty.

I believe the victimless sin of homosexuality is a test that the Lord has been administering to us since the beginning. Or at least since the New Testament commandment of “love your neighbor.”

Twenty-Five Things (You Don’t Know) About Me

In Uncategorized on August 9, 2012 at 7:39 am

1. I procrastinate.

2. I love Britney Spears’ music.

3. I was a cheerleader in high school.

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4. True crime fascinates me.

5. I have a heart-shaped beauty mark on my right leg.

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6. I’ve driven across the country, from the Golden State to the Garden State.

7. All four of my parents are retired school teachers.

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8. I split open my older brother Jeff’s head with a wrench when I was five years old.

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9. I split open my head when I was seven years old by playing dead (karma) tree on my bed.

10. I graduated from Bible school eight years ago.

11. I attended the 1996 MTV Video Music Awards as a seat filler.

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12. Jason Alexander was the keynote speaker at my college graduation.

source: gawker.com/5094912/jason-alexanders-chilling-criminal-minds-turn-as-a-sociopathic-col-sanders

13. I have a 127 IQ.

source: creativejaunt.blogspot.com/2011/10/right-brain-logic-abstract-art.html

14. I’ve kept journals since I was in sixth grade.

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15. I’ve never had a strong desire to have children of my own, but I adore children.

Aunt Lori & Miss Alex (One of My Nine Nieces)

16. I never thought I’d live to 39.

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17. I’ve known my best friend since I was 15.

18. It took me five years to read the Bible the first time.

source: uscerock.blogspot.com/2011/04/making-time-for-god.html

19. I miss the furniture I had from Raymour & Flanigan (as shallow as that is).

20. Proverbs 3:5 – 6 is the first Bible verse I ever memorized.

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21. I’d live on pizza and ice cream if I could.

22. I sleep with the TV on.

source: geniusbeauty.com/woman-health/dangers-falling-asleep-watching-tv/

23. I was born with an immature larynx. (It’s a real thing.)

24. My favorite kind of man seems to be a scripted one.

source: blog.theknot.com/2012/07/20/groom-style-alert-bruce-wayne-wears-armani-in-the-dark-knight-rises/

25. I have an aversion to paying full price for anything except food.

I Gave God the Finger, and, Yes, Cheerleading Is a Gift

In Uncategorized on November 19, 2011 at 4:58 am

Just because. That’s why God loves me. (And you, too, by the way.)

I have a hard time accepting that He loves me just because. That means my worth is based on nothing I’ve done. Let’s face it. In most, if not all, of our relationships, we like each other because the other person is, at the very least, nice to us. But the Lord loves me (yes, we’re back on me) even when I’m behaving in an unlovable way.

I’ll tell you something I haven’t told too many people: I’ve screamed, “F*ck You, God!” while giving Him the finger. True story. But I’ve lived to tell the tale. Know what? He loved me even during that blasphemous tirade. (Someday I will share the entire story behind the tirade.)

The flip side of not being able to earn the Lord’s love is that we also can’t lose it. That does not mean we have carte blanche to go on murderous rampages or even gossip sprees. Why would we want to hurt the One who loves us so dearly and unconditionally? When you genuinely have a relationship with the Lord, you’re not inclined to behave in ways that displease Him.

Similar to the “you can’t earn His love” Truth is that none of our accomplishments are our own. Crushing, isn’t it? I know. I thought for the longest time that my cheerleading skills in high school were all mine. You should have seen my toe-touch jumps, splits, back handsprings, and straight wrists. I was good. Really good. Varsity-as-a-freshman good. Turns out He gave me a gift. (Yes, cheerleading is a gift! And it is also a sport! Don’t get me started on that age-old argument. I’d rather argue when life begins.)

All things were created by Him and for Him (Colossians 1:16). The only thing we can take credit for is accepting Christ as our Lord and Savior. And some argue even that is entirely predestined, a precept of the faith I do not completely subscribe to. I believe we can take credit for being obedient to the Lord, though. But even then, if we pray, “Lord, please help me be obedient to You,” who gets the credit? He does, yes? It’s a prudent idea to give God the glory in all things lest one becomes prideful. After all, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble” (1 Peter 5:5).

Now comes the question of motivation. If I don’t have to do anything to garner the Creator’s love, which is the greatest love of all (sorry, Whitney, but your conclusion was not quite accurate), and if I don’t get credit for what I thought were my achievements, why bother with anything? The heart of the problem here is a big three-letter word: ego. It gets no attention!

But God is so gracious and judicious that He takes our unquenchable egos out of the equation of life by giving us unearned love and by rightfully taking credit for our accomplishments. So then what is left to do if the ego is no longer a factor? Let’s think…Let’s think…I know! Let’s look upward and outward! Let’s spend our lives glorifying God and showing gratitude: let’s pray, fellowship, spread the Good News, work hard, exercise, learn, give, enrich others’ lives with the gifts He’s given us, and celebrate life every day. Oh, and let’s love each other…just because.

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